Gay Atlanta
Dwight Eubanks: The Atlanta Interview

“When you know better, you do better.”
Wednesday night I caught up with Dwight Eubanks, owner of the Purple Door Salon on Edgewood Avenue and former star of The Real Housewives of Atlanta.
Eubanks was at Grady High School for CNN Dialogues: LGBT. “I thought it was very informative, and I’m very pleased that I came out,” he said.
On Midtown’s LGBT community:
“We need support for these types of things [CNN Dialogues], not just in our community, but in all communities for us to move forward. We have to have dialogue and conversation because we are so segregated. We’re still very divided. We have a lot of work to do.”
On gay bullying and homeless youth in Georgia:
“Bullying happens at home, in our community and at school. We have alarming numbers of gay homeless youth here in Georgia, and it happens at age 13. How do we have such a large gay population and no outreach center in Georgia? Hopefully we will see some changes very soon to address those issues.”
On coming out:
“For the black community, coming out is hard. It is very different for black Americans to be out because we are not comfortable with our sexuality. We don’t want to talk about it in church, in school, and we most definitely don’t talk about it at home. We learn about our sexuality out on the street.”
On HIV & AIDS:
“A new generation of parents have to become comfortable with sexuality and talking about it. We would not have the problems of HIV and AIDS in our community if we talked about it. We act like it doesn’t exist.”
On The Real Housewives of Atlanta:
“I do not miss being on that show particularly,” Eubanks said when I asked if he missed being on The Real Housewives of Atlanta (he was phased out last season).
“I did not watch it last year but I do hear a lot of comments about it. It was fun and footsteps in the direction I was going in. I’m still great friends with them and love them all, but I feel that when you know better, you do better.”
“Being on television was great, it had its advantages and disadvantages, but it’s not over yet. There’s a whole lot behind this door that America has not seen. It seems as though reality TV isn’t going anywhere, but let’s have some substance.”
Do you miss Dwight on The Real Housewives of Atlanta?
Johnny Weir: The Atlanta Interview

“I can’t even count how many
men in heels I’ve seen down here.”
Last night I caught up with Johnny Weir at Grady High School for the CNN Dialogues: LGBT forum.
Weir, who is usually much more flamboyant, chose to wear an all black suit instead of his usual attire.
“I wanted to be very serious and downplayed, because I’m in quite a mixture of people and I’m the weird, crazy one on the end. I wanted to blend in for fashion,” he told me.
“This is my serious look. I’m in a high school, so I can’t come with my feathers and nipple tassels and all that. But I have seen so many men in high heels down here, I can’t even count – especially from The Real Housewives of Atlanta.”
It’s funny he said that, because a few minutes into the forum, Purple Door Salon owner and Real Housewives of Atlanta star Dwight Eubanks walked in and sat down right next to me (I’ll post my interview with him soon).
“I’ve been very much attacked for being gay
by the media outlets of the world.”
Weir said he would talk about whatever the group wanted to discuss, because “I’ve been there. I’ve been through it all. I’ve been very much attacked publicly for being gay by the media outlets of the world.”
“If me being here can shed some light on issues that I’ve had and that people around the world have had, then I have to be here to talk about it.”
Weir also told me he loves the southern charm and culture of Atlanta. But that’s not the only reason. Weir recently got engaged to an Atlanta man – Roswell High School and Emory University graduate Victor Voronov.
“I have an appearance in Greenville, South Carolina tomorrow,” Weir said. “Then I’m coming back to Atlanta to meet the in-laws!”
Meet Johnny Weir’s New Atlanta Fiancé!

Gay marriage was one of the big topics discussed last night during CNN Dialogues: LGBT, and it’s a subject out Olympic athlete Johnny Weir knows all too well, since he recently got engaged to a local Atlanta boy!

Weir will soon marry Victor Voronov (left in both pics above) who sat in the front row last night during Weir’s forum, smiling enthusiastically the entire time.
Voronov went to Roswell High School and graduated from Emory in 2005 (he also went to Georgetown Law School). Although he grew up and went to school in Atlanta, Voronov’s family is Russian.
Weir told me he’s driving to Greenville, South Caroline this morning for an appearance, then coming right back to Atlanta to meet the inlaws!
What do you think of Johnny Weir’s fiancé?
CNN Dialogues Tackles Tough LGBT Issues

CNN has always been at the forefront of conversation, and last night was no exception.
I had the honor of not only attending the network’s latest forum, CNN Dialogues: LGBT, at Grady High School, but also interviewing its panelists – CNN and ESPN contributor LZ Granderson and Olympic figure skater Johnny Weir.
(See my previous interview with the forum’s moderator, HLN anchor Jane Velez-Mitchell).
Tough topics included gay marriage, religion, bullying in schools, being out at work, bisexuality, transgender issues and more.
One Atlanta schoolboard member wanted to know how to manage inclusiveness in schools. How do educators actually do this? And what if the student being bullied isn’t out or is too young to know if he or she is gay?
The main topic of the forum was ‘has increased openness led to more acceptance?’ I’ll be posting more from the forum along with my panelist interviews soon.
Audience members included CNN anchor Don Lemmon, Dwight Eubanks from The Real Housewives of Atlanta, Outwrite Bookstore owner Philip Rafshoon, Atlanta Pride 2011 Grand Marshall Lynn Barfield, gay sex columnist Michael Alvear and Johnny Weir’s new fiance, Victor Voronov who went to Emory.
What do you think?
Has increase openness in the gay community led to more acceptance, or vice-versa?
Soledad O’Brien: The Atlanta Interview

“I’ve moderated a lot of crazy in my day!”
You’ve seen anchor and special correspondent Soledad O’Brien on CNN hosting series like ‘Black in America‘ and ‘Latino in America.’ Now Soledad comes to Atlanta on December 14th to moderate ‘CNN Dialogues Presents: LGBT.’
The forum’s topic is ‘Has More Openness Led to More Acceptance?’, and will be held at the Grady High School Theater in partnership with Emory University, the James Weldon Johnson Institute for the Study of Race and Difference, and the National Center for Civil and Human Rights.
Panelists will include US Champion figure skater Johnny Weir, ESPN writer and CNN contributor Liz Granderson, transgender speaker and author Donna Rose, and Deputy Director of the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund Robin Brand (click here for tickets).
We caught up with Soledad O’Brien to ask about the ‘CNN Dialogues: LGBT’ forum, her new morning show, and moderating Johnny Weir…
Why did you decide to moderate CNN Dialogues: LGBT?
I thought it was a really interesting topic, and a continuation of what I’ve done at CNN – having conversations and putting them on TV in the form of documentaries. We did one the other day about working women at CNN on our staff.
The LGBT topic fits under the umbrella of conversations not usually had, and I don’t think it can be done in two minutes. There is a lot of research and nuances surrounding this topic – it needs a moderator so we can talk about change.
Does being of mixed race help you relate to LGBT people?
I just did a special for CNN called ‘Gary and Tony Have a Baby‘ and I got asked that question a lot. I always find it a very interesting question, because I do find value as a reporter having grown up an outsider.
I grew up of mixed race in Long Island – my mother used to say ‘we do not blend!’ I mean we had afros and a VW van.
As a journalist, we have our perspective, but we’re always looking for another voice. I’m always looking for another take on a subject.
I would never say that growing up of mixed race in Long Island that I know what it’s like to be gay. But I get your question – there is a value in reporting.
Are you worried about moderating Johnny Weir? He can get a little crazy!
I’m actually not. I’ve moderated a lot of crazy in my day! He’s crazy and talented, which puts him ahead of being crazy and mean like some people I’ve moderated.
He is on the panel and it’s a high school environment where there is an audience. So my job is to moderate!
Tell me about your new morning show.
We don’t have a title yet. I’m thinking about going on Twitter and asking people for suggestions! We’ll be on the air in January, so the show will launch in the first quarter.
Will it be mostly interviews or conversations with the other hosts?
It will be conversations with people in the news. Not just the big news makers, but people who are actually living the news that we don’t normally get to hear from.
Ashleigh Banfield and Zoraida Sambolin will host the first two hours, then I’ll have a bunch of people on the next two hours. It will be a diverse mix of everything from every which way.
I’ll cover topics I’m interested in, so I can say ‘all next week will be devoted to this topic.’ Then we’ll cover it every which way Monday through Friday. I can say ‘this is a really important issue so we’re going to cover it five times this year.’
That’s why I was so excited about doing this show, because we can cover a topic in-depth for an entire week if we want.
As a mom, will you still have time to do your documentaries and specials like CNN Dialogues?
I’ll probably do a couple of documentaries next year because it will be a political year. I won’t do as many. I traveled a lot last year – so much that my children called me by my sitter’s name instead of mommy! So I won’t be traveling as much.
Yesterday was World AIDS Day. You host the series Black in America - I saw on your blog that African Americans are eight times more likely to contract AIDS than white people.
It’s terrible. The people on twitter were great talking about that, although sometimes the story would shift to Africa. This is happening in the United States. It’s a huge problem that’s worthy of having a documentary.
The upside of me having a new daily morning show is that I can cover topics like this.
In your book ‘The Next Big Story‘ you talk about the importance of telling stories. What do you think is LGBT people’s most important story right now?
That’s a great question. It’s going to be a political year, so I think it will be a political story. ‘The power of politics.’ In a minority community we have a head count, but who is really in a position to make change?
- ‘CNN Dialogues Presents: LGBT‘ will be held on Wednesday, December 14th, 2011 from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the Grady High School Theater (929 Charles Allen Drive, Atlanta). Tickets are $25 for the public, $15 for students with valid ID.
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Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus announces new executive director

The Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus has a new executive director, the group announced today. Crystal Anderson, previously a senior vice president of StandUP for Kids, a nonprofit organization dedicated to rescuing homeless and at-risk youth, officially took the reigns of the 100-member chorus on Oct. 31. “This position fills a need within me to give back to our wonderfully diverse community while using my experience, talent and passion for achieving excellence to help the chorus grow and achieve a higher level of success than ever before,” Anderson said today in a press release. “My heart has always been with… >>
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Education and empowerment for LGBT families
The third annual MEGA Family Conference gets underway Saturday, promising a full day of workshops and discussions for LGBT parents and those considering parenthood. The event, hosted by MEGA Family Project, is set for 8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Atlanta. “It is the only opportunity in the Southeast for families to come together to discuss the unique challenges and issues we face. It is aimed to give parents the tools they need to help their children through various issues they may encounter. It is also an excellent opportunity for people considering adding children to… >>
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AIDS Walk nears $925,000 goal

Thousands flocked to Piedmont Park Oct. 16 participate in the annual AIDS Walk Atlanta and 5K Run, raising money for area agencies that serve those with HIV and AIDS. Fundraising from the walk currently totals $915,000 with a final goal of $925,000, according to Tracy Elliott, executive director of AID Atlanta, which produces the annual event. People can donate until Nov. 30 to AID Atlanta. “Sometimes those of us in the field feel alone, that the world has forgotten about HIV and AIDS, and then we have the walk and 10,000 people show up and remind us that they haven’t forgotten, that Atlanta… >>
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AGenda Benda Justice helps Atlanta’s masculine-identified gay women
AGenda Benda Justice is a budding organization started by Cole Thomas that seeks to bring awareness and resources to bullied children, teens and adults; LGBTQ people seeing access to healthcare; single parents of color; and masculine-identified women. Thomas, who is currently raising funds to produce her play, “Lying in Bed,” says the name AGenda Benda Justice fits with the gender bending she herself embraces as a masculine-identified female. The capitol “AG” gives tribute to women who identify as “aggressives” — women, primarily black women, who prefer to dress in traditional male attire. Ensuring masculine-identified women get… >>
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Mary Moore leads The Cook’s Warehouse to delicious success
There are five things everyone needs in their kitchen, says Mary Moore, founder and CEO of The Cook’s Warehouse: a good knife, the right cutting board to maintain that knife, a saute pan, tongs and a whisk. “You can do a lot with those,” she says. Of course, you can do a lot more with the thousands of gourmet items sold at The Cook’s Warehouse. In addition to locations in Ansley Mall, Decatur and Brookhaven, the newest store opened a few weeks ago in East Cobb in the Merchant’s Walk Shopping Center. >>
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